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“What
roles have YOU assigned the ‘Significant Others’ in
YOUR life?” 18 Aug 2009 LUCY
LOPEZ Qld 4152 Australia Dear
Friend Does my question surprise you? I
thought it might. After all, most
of us hardly believe we have the power to assign OURSELVES the roles we wish
to play in this world (e.g. wealthy partner, loving parent, rocket scientist),
let alone the power to assign roles to others! But
guess what? We
do! Whether
you realize it or not, you have assigned every person in your life the role
that you want them to play. The
fact that you have done this unconsciously does not change the fact that you
have done it! From
your mother to your ex-partner to your children to your dog, you have been
the (mostly) unconscious casting director of the ‘Significant Others’
in your life. Hi,
I’m Lucy Lopez and in my letter to you today I’d like to make you
a truly amazing offer.
I’m
offering to uncover for you the hidden information that could help you
understand and take charge of the key relationships in your life! Let
me explain. As
a mentor who journeys with people in their search for happiness,
peace of mind and prosperity, I have yet to meet one person who does not
have at least one troubling relationship in their life. The
most common troubling relationships my clients have are with their partners
(or ex-partners) and parents followed by their bosses, colleagues and
children. Can
you relate to that? I’m
going to take a brief ‘detour’ right here but it’s a
necessary one, so please bear with me. In
my Mentoring program, my focus is on helping my clients feel empowered
by gaining self-knowledge, especially knowledge of who
they are beyond their personality.
This
is the kind of knowledge that the world’s greatest spiritual teachers,
philosophers and achievers have sought and found - knowledge of who they
truly are. “Know thyself” said Plato
thousands of years ago. It is as
critical for us today as it was in Plato’s day. It’s the only path to lasting happiness,
peace and prosperity! It
is this self-knowledge of the limitless greatness and goodness that we
truly are that enables us to push past the limiting beliefs and habits of
our socially driven ‘personality’, needs and wants. Without
this knowledge, we remain ‘less than’, forever searching for
‘more’ and somehow expecting our ‘significant others’ to give us what we need. They can’t. No more than we can give them
what they desire. We
therefore develop relationships characterized by dependency and neediness,
ultimately leaving us feeling disempowered. Now,
although my clients generally finish my Mentoring program gaining tremendous
self-knowledge, feeling greatly empowered and infinitely happier than they
were at the start of my program, I have always felt that there was something
else that they needed to understand, to gain insight into. As it turned out, it was something
that I needed too! I
wasn’t sure what this ‘something
else’ was but it kept nagging me. At
the start of this year, I decided I would develop a spiritual training
program for myself. I have been
on this program for the last six months and the results have been astounding. Some
very long standing ‘issues’ that I’ve had relating to money
and family have finally been resolved.
You see, for me, ‘money’ was one of my ‘Significant
Others’! By
‘resolved’, I mean that I’ve attained and continue to
maintain a calmness and confidence of mind that I’d never experienced
before surrounding these very issues that have caused me considerable pain
and loss over some years. Put
simply, I’ve freed myself from the fears, hurts
and doubts that I’d experienced for years around my relationships with
money and with certain family members so that my relationships in these areas
have improved out of sight! Tremendous
as all that may be, there’s more!. Another
very significant outcome of this period of spiritual training has been a deepening
of my intuitive abilities. Now,
it is true that we are all, by nature, intuitive but for many of us, our
conditioning into fear and left-brain dominance has stifled our intuitive
ability. Certainly,
as a result of my conscious ‘self-growth’ over the last 20 years,
I’ve been recovering my intuitive nature. However, my recent spiritual work seems
to have flung its doors wide open! I
am noticing synchronicities even more frequently (almost constantly)
and they occur much more rapidly from the time I first give something thought,
sometimes within a few minutes!
Truly amazing and yet truly natural! But
here’s another thing that is also really wonderful. One of the effects of this intuitive
enhancement has occurred in my Tarot/Intuitive readings, something that
I’ve been doing for almost 10 years now. Which brings me back to the subject of the roles
we assign to our ‘Significant Others’. As
a result of my deepening intuitive ability, I was guided to design a new
spread. (A spread is a layout of
Tarot cards, for those who are not familiar with Tarot reading). In this spread, the roles that
you’ve assigned to the ‘Significant Others’ in your life
are revealed. Now just
imagine this: Imagine
finding out that your father who had been harsh and severe was actually there
to teach you about ‘balance’ in your life, even though (or
perhaps because) he was such a poor example! Or
what if you discovered that the mother whom you worshiped as the model of
unconditional love had actually been assigned the role of showing you that
you can overcome any hardship by demonstrating it herself? Or
how about the role you’ve assigned
your ex-partner to teach you how to overcome oppression (“Anything that
doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger” - Neitzche)? Or
that your child, who had, from an early age, displayed an interest in
designer labels was really assigned by you to teach you about wealth? Fascinating
as these revelations may be, their true value lies in helping you look beyond
the obvious or apparent and see into the deeper structures and purpose of
your relationships! “You teach
people how to treat you” was something that Wayne Dyer
told us some years ago. Indeed! And we do that by assigning
particular roles to people.
But because we do this unconsciously, we lack the awareness to
help us understand the deeper nature and purpose of our relationships! Instead,
we maintain relationships of ‘reactivity’ rather than
‘responsiveness’ by focusing mostly on what we don’t want from the relationship
rather than what we do want in
relation to the role we assigned a ‘Significant Other’. For
example, in the case of a harsh father given to extreme world views and
behaviours, instead of focusing on what we can learn from him about
balancing our emotions, our perceptions and our energies, we become
preoccupied with judging him for his harshness and developing hatred toward
him. We
end up feeling deeply wounded by this parent, unable or unwilling to heal. On
the other hand, when we start to understand the role we have assigned a
‘Significant Other’ and the true nature and purpose of our relationship, we can use the relationship to our
advantage which is precisely why we assigned them that
particular role in the first place! Don’t
get me wrong. ‘Using
a relationship to our advantage’ is not about exploitation. It is about efficiency. It is
about getting the
BEST you can get in the SHORTEST amount
of time and with the LEAST effort. And
of course, when you seek to get the best out of a relationship, the
relationship cannot but improve! But, here’s an interesting twist to the
story. If
you discover that the role you’ve assigned a ‘significant
other’ is no longer a role you wish them to have, you now have
the information and the power to assign them a different role altogether! For
example, the ex-partner whom you’d assigned the role of
‘oppressor’ could now be re-assigned the role of ‘a friend
in need’. After all,
you are the ‘casting director’. You get to choose. You are
the creator of your world! Does
all this sound a bit ‘pie in the sky’ for you? If
it does, sadly, it’s to be expected. Most people have, in the course of
history, ignored or rejected some of the most blindingly obvious truths. Don’t
remain blind and deaf. Pay
attention to the evidence in front of you. “Your
world is just as you have created it”. As
the Buddha said, centuries ago: “With
your thoughts, you create your world” - Buddha And
as James Allen concurred: “As
a man thinketh, so is he” – James Allen Today,
Quantum Physics is finally catching up with the insights of humanity’s
enlightened teachers. Are you
going to straggle behind? “You
are of the same, ultimate source and power as the entire universe. And whether you’re using your
power consciously or
unconsciously, you are always using it and you are using it
to attract all the things and people into your life.” “You
are using it to assign each person in your life a
certain dominant role.” Whether
you use your power to your advantage or to your disadvantage, the power is
still yours! “Did I
assign the person who raped me the role of a rapist?” No,
and certainly not consciously.
But you did assign someone the role of exercising power and control
over you. It happened to be
this person and it happened to be in this way. Why
did you do it? Probably because
you were unaware of your own power or too afraid to take charge of it. Every
person in your life has been assigned a role by you – unconsciously. Those people with
whom you have a close or strong relationship are the ones who have the
greatest impact on you – your ‘Significant Others’. On
the face of it, they may have the role of ‘lover’, ‘parent’,
‘son’ or ‘best friend’ but there is always a hidden, more important role
that you have unconsciously assigned them and which you’re currently not
taking advantage of! Which is why it is
important for you to know *WHAT roles you have
assigned the people in your life
*WHY you have assigned
them these roles and *HOW to use your
relationship ‘efficiently’ (which is really another word for
‘lovingly’). And it is important to
know WHEN the role you’ve assigned is no longer useful to you and to
wisely assign a new role or wisely let go of a person in your life. By
understanding the deeper, underlying nature and purpose of each person’s
role in your life, you’re able to get from your relationships with
them what you truly need. Are you
ready for this fascinating journey of discovery that can help you understand
and take charge of all the significant relationships in your life? You really do not need
to waste another moment of your life in ignorance, stumbling in the dark,
creating and experiencing more of what you don’t want in your
relationships with your ‘Significant Others’. In short, being clueless about why
things are they way they are. You can change your
troublesome relationships right now.
You can be the conscious, powerful, enlightened creator of your world
and all your significant relationships.
Within a matter of
minutes, information that has been buried in your subconscious for years can
be accessed using the Tarot, a powerful, psychological time-tested tool. As
I said before, despite my conscious spiritual journey of over 20 years, I
needed to uncover and understand the deeper, underlying roles of some of the ‘Significant
Others’ (including money) in my life before I was finally able to free
myself from the hurts and limitations of my relationships with them! Discover
today the roles YOU have assigned the ‘Significant Others’ in
your life. Contact me now for an Intuitive Reading using the Tarot, a
powerful time-tested psychological tool. My offer
is as generous as it gets and it comes with a 100% MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE –
no questions asked! Why am I prepared to return all of your money? Two reasons: 1. I
know the quality and value of what I do and I am confident that you will get
to know it too. Consequently,
you’re unlikely to ask for your money back! 2. I
certainly don’t wish to keep your money if you don’t give it
willingly and gratefully. So, how much will it cost you? Given that a 1.5 hr Mentoring session with me will cost you $110
AUD ($91 USD), you’ll be thrilled to know that for
the same amount of time (and actually more if I have to email you a reading),
it will cost you an unbelievable $60 AUD
($50 USD)! That’s right. For just $60 AUD ($50 USD), you’ll
get a comprehensive reading on the Roles of 4 ‘Significant Others’ in your life. Are there
more than 4 ‘Significant Others’ whose roles you would like to uncover, understand and use more ‘efficiently’? For just $10 AUD ($8
USD), you can get a reading for 2
additional ‘Significant Others’! For
example, you could get a comprehensive reading on the Roles of 8 ‘Significant
Others’ for a mere $80 AUD ($66 USD) It
may seem insane to you, but I have my reasons for keeping my prices
deliciously affordable ;) For
one thing, I appreciate the fact that you don’t know me personally. You
may be put off by that but as far as Tarot readings are concerned, that is a
real plus! You
see, I have very little information about you to influence me. I am thus able to rely entirely on my
intuitive reading of the Tarot. Any
good Tarot reader should do this anyway, but lets face it, the temptation to construct rather than intuit a reading is greater when you
have information about a Querent (that’s you,
by the way J). For
another, now that I know and understand the role I’ve assigned one of
my ‘Significant Others’ – money – I’ve freed
myself from my limiting beliefs around it. I am much,
much more relaxed about money than I’ve ever been and I’ve
noticed how much, much more easily it comes to me… J And
you, dear friend, can benefit from both of these reasons! So are you
finally ready to book a Tarot
Reading with me now? CALL OR EMAIL ME There
are 4 ways that I offer readings: ·
Face to face ·
By email ·
By Telephone ·
Online Chat using Windows Messenger What are
you waiting for? LUCY LOPEZ B Sc PG C Ed Mentoring Workshops Meditation Intuitive Readings Tel 07-33672146 Mob 0411-200 015 Email lucy@lucylopez.net If you want to understand and feel powerful, free and
confident in your relationships with your ‘Significant Others’, a Tarot
reading with me will certainly help you do it. It’s
easy, painless, risk-free, confidential and so affordable! And
remember, I offer a FULL MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE. I
look forward to reading for you!
Call or Email me! NOW! Truth,
Light and Power! Lucy © www.lucylopez.net/planethappiness |
