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“The
supreme happiness of life is the
conviction that we are loved” Victor
Hugo
(Don’t forget to pick up my GIFT of
LOVE to you at the end of this message!) “Love rules without
rules” Italian proverb Dear
Friend Would
it shock you terribly if I told you that I don’t recall the word ‘love’ ever used in my family in
ordinary conversation when I was growing up?
The only time I did hear it was during evening prayers which my father
religiously led us in daily. It
was little surprise, therefore, that ‘love’
wasn’t a word I used easily or comfortably as a young adult and while I was
married. Having children helped
greatly but, through the history of my family, I would also hear the word
used almost flippantly and sometimes manipulatively. In
my experience, therefore, I have gone from almost never hearing the word ‘love’ (bar in a religious context) to
hearing it being somewhat ‘ab-used’! Did
this influence my understanding and experience of love? You bet it did. Did it remain the sole influence? No, thank goodness. But it did set the stage for my dedicated
exploration of this phenomenon we call ‘love’. In
fact, over the years (and there have been many), I have kept my ears close to
the ground, the ground of love that is.
Through the relationships
that I had following the breakdown of my marriage and as a single woman,
parent and mentor since, I have read and listened to what others have had to
say from the fields of psychology to spirituality and science. I
have reflected on my personal
experiences and those of my clients.
I have observed myself and others and I have meditated. In other words, I have ‘studied’ love
through a number of ‘real life’ modalities! What
I have learned from all this has enabled me to love better, to live
better and to help others love and live better. It has helped me understand, accept and
experience myself and others so much more authentically, richly and in ways
that I had never thought possible! It
has kept me from falling victim to
the unpredictability of relationships without the loss of faith or passion! And it has helped me maintain a sense of
equanimity or even-mindedness through some very painful life experiences.
Embedded
in most of our minds are myths
about love, fears about love and
conflicting and disempowering beliefs
about love. If
you have wondered why it seems so hard
to love or to be loved or why love, which is supposed to be a wonderful
thing, can also be the cause of such terrible heartache, then I am certain that The Love Course will help clear
things up for you. In
a no-nonsense yet loving way, The Love Course
will ·
Explain some of the most
perplexing things about ‘love’. ·
De-myth-ify the most commonly
held myths about love and relationships. ·
Lead you gently through a series of
questions, exercises, meditations and visualizations to help you identify and
sort through your own beliefs, doubts, (mis)understandings and expectations
about love. ·
Give you many opportunities
to reflect on and re-assess your dominant and conscious as well as subtle and
subconscious thoughts, words and behaviours that characterize your
relationships. ·
Teach you specific skills to
help you overcome unloving habits of thought, speech and behaviour ·
Help you build the confidence
you need to love effortlessly, freely and fully. In short, The Love Course will help you love and live life
more joyously, richly and successfully than you have ever done! If
you are still doubtful, try answering the following questions as honestly as
you can: 1.
Are you happy? Or does pain or
dissatisfaction or restlessness outweigh the joyful experiences in your
life? 2.
Do you find yourself judging, chastising,
criticizing or getting impatient with yourself or someone close to you? 3.
Are you generally happy and comfortable
with who you are as a person? 4.
Do you find yourself entering into
relationships because you need to be loved and accepted? 5.
Do you find that you are in need of
reassurance about your worthiness, value or lovability? 6.
Do you feel loving and loved? Or are
you afraid to show love and equally afraid to receive love? 7.
Are your decisions (big and small) driven
by love thus leaving you feeling joyous, peaceful and powerful? Or are
they driven by fear, guilt and/or anger thus leaving you feeling anxious and
powerless? 8.
Do you feel in control of your life?
Or do you feel a victim of the people and situations in your life? In short, are you living in
love? For most of us, the hardest lessons of love tend to occur
in the school of so-called ‘romantic’
relationships/partnerships or marriage. Yet, there is a much larger school called
‘life in general’ whose lessons in love we have largely ignored, dismissed or
failed to see the significance of. You see, love is not confined
to particular relationships despite what Hollywood would have you
believe. No, love is the very fabric
of life and we must recognize it everywhere
if we are to recognize it at all! How
do you do this? Let me show you. Sign up for The Love Course. It is offered in two Options. One without my weekly feedback, the other
with. If cost is a factor (and please
note how drastically I have reduced my price just so that many more people
can benefit from this wonderful program), then purchase the former. However, I would encourage you purchase the
latter as it will give you the added company of a fellow-traveler. If you feel that you are living at less than 100% of your
love/life potential, I urge you to sign up for the course that could
seriously turn things around for you. If you want more joy, less fear, a greater sense of control
and peace, this course will certainly help you! Living in Love is NOT a Random thing Too many of us believe that
we’re either lucky in love or
we’re not. In other words, we believe that living joyously, peacefully,
abundantly, passionately and freely is a rather random affair, or one predetermined by some quirk of fate
aka god, destiny, the stars, karma etc. I want to assure you that
there is nothing random or predetermined, at least not by any external
force. You and only you determine your life experiences! With
your beliefs and perceptions, you
create your life experiences. Now I know you’ve heard this
many, many times before. It’s ‘new
age speak’! You even say it to yourself and others. And yet,
while you want to believe it and even think that you believe it, your beliefs
are not reflected in the life you’re living. What do I mean by that?
Well, if you did believe that you determine your life, surely your life would be blissful and perfect, offering you all the
love, romance, power, freedom and creative space you ever wanted, right? So, why isn’t it so? Could it be that You don’t know how? If so, here is a wonderful
opportunity to learn how in a convenient, gently paced, hugely affordable
way! Sign up for The Love
Course A 6-week EXPERIENTIAL course that could Change the Course of Your Life! This is a six-lesson course
delivered to you by email over six weeks! Here is how it works: Each week, you will be sent
some notes for reading and reflection. You will also be given an
exercise in meditation and/or self-observation. And you will be
required to answer a few questions based on your experiences and observations.
You will email your responses to me and I shall respond with some feedback to
help you along*. That’s it! How simple is
that???? Now, let me say this:
Don’t let the simplicity of the course fool you into thinking that its
results are insignificant. Quite the contrary. The impact of this
course is profound! I say this with such confidence because this course
draws on materials and methods that I have used in my 12-week mentoring
program; a program that has turned lives around! People who have done my Mentoring program
have experienced huge shifts in their lives, enabling them to live more
peacefully, joyfully, lovingly and wisely, with greater acceptance,
self-awareness and true power! It has given them the confidence
to seek and maintain loving, peaceful, joyful and freeing
relationships! It has made them more self-aware so that they can
tell when they are acting from love and when they are acting from fear.
This in itself is a freeing and empowering thing! A Simple Course with Profound Results! So, what’s in the
course? Here’s what you’ll be reading about, reflecting on and doing
exercises in: Week 1 - Crazy little
thing called ‘love’ Part One Week 2 - Crazy little
thing called ‘love’ Part Two Week 3 - Thinking in love Week 4 - Listening in
love Week 5 - Speaking and
acting in love Week 6 - Falling in love
and staying in love And here is what you will Learn through
The Love Course: >The true
meaning of love >The common myths
about love and why are we so attached to them >Why it is impossible
to live without love >The awesome truth about fear >The awesome truth about love >What it is like to think,
feel, speak and act in love >What it is like to think, feel, speak and act in love >The 5 steps to immediately get you thinking in love >How you can replace old, unwanted disempowering beliefs,
no matter how deeply held, with empowering beliefs that you choose >How to relate to yourself lovingly,
unconditionally >How to develop and maintain mental, verbal
and behavioral habits of love >How to recognize
and change habits of fear >Powerful Meditations/Visualizations (including one audio version)
to establish a stable, loving internal environment and radiate the glow of
love and so much more…. Remember, this course requires
both understanding and practice! In other words, it is
experiential. It is hands on. It is about you.
It is not about some abstract concepts. It is about you living your
life and creating the life of love that you so desire! And you
do this with a co-traveler – someone who has traveled with many others
along a similar journey! That’s right. I am here
as your companion and, when necessary, as your guide. Together, we
will journey in love! Can you imagine how beautiful and freeing
that would be??? I urge you: Sign up
for The Love Course. Now.
It could change everything for you!
Seriously. Dear Friend, I am aware that
many people (and you may be one of them) are feeling the financial pinch and
foregoing on some terrific opportunities for self-nourishment and
growth. If anything, these are the
times when they most need it, which is why I have decided to severely
reduce the price of The Love
Course and offer it in two irresistible options. Besides, I don’t want to lose out on the
rewarding experience of helping people like you get more out of life, so much
more! So, are you Ready to Go? Here’s what you have to do: Below
are the options to choose from. Please
bear in mind that this course normally sells for $90 AUD/$75 USD… OPTION 2 – For an additional $10
i.e. for a mere AUD$30/USD$22.50 , you
can have the entire 6-weeks’ Notes, Exercises and Meditation practices PLUS my weekly personalized
feedback on your responses to the exercises. That’s all there is to
it! I hope you’ll take advantage of this beautiful opportunity!
For a very small investment in time and an incredibly small investment in
money, you could start to experience profound changes in your life! And while you’re at it,
perhaps you know of someone who would truly benefit from this course, not
because there’s something wrong with them but because they want something
more….If so, please share this message with them. Thank You and I look forward
to journeying with you in love! Lucy *Not included in Option 1 I’m ready to really start Living in Love. It’s absolutely crazy to Live any other way! I’m ready to get more, so much more out of My
Life! Email
Lucy to get Started Now! Lucy
Lopez is a mentor, meditation and retreat guide, workshop facilitator and
speaker in the field of Personal and Spiritual development. Her
commitment to her ongoing spiritual growth together with her background in
education, research in cognitive psychology and integrated (Spirit-Mind-Body)
healing as well as her daily meditation practice enables her to write, teach
and guide from a richly informed and deeply experiential place. You can
find out more about Lucy at www.lucylopez.net And here is a gift from me to you: My FREE ebook
A high consciousness
book for Children and
their Parents (and we all fall in
one or both of those categories :-)) |
